Cyberlove...Dream or reality ???

I've noticed that more and more people tend to fall in love through the Net...by chat most of the time...It sounds crazy

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Lots of people feel themselves more comfortable talking about them behind the screen...Start to create some links and intimacy with other Internet user...But when the time comes to meet each other...Then, often, they feel disappointed because in reality, they have created in mind someone who does not exist...

So...What's the point in chatting ?!

Helping people who are a bit shy

How ?

Some people cannot speak to strangers in real life

Of course it helps them to speak out...But what's the point to talk to a stranger ??? Isn't it better then to talk to your friends ???!!!

it might help some getting confidence.

Sometimes you want more than just friends

To be more self-confident ok...But what I want to understand is...What will it change ?

I mean...They will feel more self-confident "for a while"...as far as they'll be talking to that or those strangers...But after that ? What will happen?

Yeah...Lots of people think they can find "Love" throughout the Net...

I think some people need some help to get their 1st contact

Ok, imagine, you meet sb on the Net...you creat some close links, then it's time to "meet"...And you discover everything what you thought was in fact soooo unreal...

I call this a waste of time

If you go to a night club/pub... only confident (or drunk!) people will try to speak to someone else.

Oh definitely agree

I don't think meeting someone on the Internet should be for everyone

Just for shy people, people living in remote areas and maybe busy people..

If they are that shy...They may keep this shyness when they meet the people they talked too

it's so easy to create a new identity

when you are behind your screen, where nobody can see and judge you

but look, when you meet the person, I guess it is sooo far away from what you made up to your mind before meeting this person

I mean...for examples, for several weeks, you keep talking to a person on a regular period of time, say everyday...then you meet this person, and all is then different...

you cannot speak anymore, because you're "shy"...

isn't it like that ???!!!

speaking online doesn't mean changing your personality

it's the same in the real life

some people will try to cheat (saying that they have money, no wife, a good job...)

it's not different online....

it's not different but it is so mush easy to CHEAT on the Net, just as you said it

According to me...you cannot really know a person just by chatting with him on the Net

I don't know, it sounds crazy...Words and acts are so different

you can keep on saying you're like this or that, but in fact not...

And sometimes people are not aware of this...that they're pretending someone they are not

:s

use the Internet just as another way to find some new people

don't spend too much time on it for this reason

and everything will be alright

Hahahhaa, it's fine...I'm not looking for anybody hahahahah...I was just wondering

how can cyberlove could ever exist

how cyberlove would ever exist sorry

could !

Just another way to meet people nothing else!!!

don't take it to seriously

hhahahaa, ok...I was just trying to understand one of my friends' story...He's having some strange relationship with a female Internet user...crazy...Anyways...Will talk about it next time. I need to get some sleep...See you Olive !

Helloo, someone there who can help me? O.o